A Tale of Good Frens
Recently , really really busy with school projects and class tests until i hardly find time to rest and slp for like 14hrs per day to feel energetic LOL. As my close frens will know that my grandmother have health problems , and contemplating about moving house really occupies my mind .
So last week ;p , i decided to msn this good fren of mine, lets name her Jane [ not her real name], to ask how was she doing so and so. The conversation started off pretty well , but gradually i notice her "tone" in msn was quite dull. so i decided to ask her was she alrite.
She replied that she wasn't feeling good and the first thought came into my mind is oh oh the woman's thingy >< . But apparently it wasn't , so my next thought that its more of heart matters. So using my "counselling" experience lol , i asked her whether what was the problem that she is facing. [Yeah , i know she refers me as KPO, ;p ]
Gradually , she slowly reveal to me that she broke up with her bf of 3 years [ name him as Jack then lol ] . i can sense the pause/slowness of her reply, perhaps she is crying on the other side. Apparently , they have major communication problems like for instance Jack not telling Jane how he actually feels and this really disappoints Jane alot. Jane hopes his bf could treat her as someone he can talk to and by keeping mum about stuffs doesn't really help their relationship. Hence, the day came when Jane couldnt take it any longer and decided to break up with Jack.
In my opinion, if a couple cant even communicate, then i see no point in holding on. Simply because are u going to marry someone that doesnt tell u how she/he feels??? how is that going to be a blissful marriage. Unfortunately, for Jane, i know about her dreams of having a blissful family with Jack , but guess its not going work out that way and it really shatter her badly. Furthermore, i felt that its really weird that Jack didnt make effort to hold on to Jane when she pop the question.
so juz an hour ago, i was talking to Jane again , hoping that she is feeling better now. But woah , her nick was like she was so happy with a guy. One first thought was that she got back together with Jack, however she reply a clear "NO" to me lol. and so i got into my "interview" skills again lol, and ask her whether did she got a new bf?? obviously , she didnt reply me until much longer. and yet again , i manage to ask even further and guess the correct person as her bf.
Bingo , Peter [not real name too ] was her new bf. Now, perhaps u whom were reading got really confused , but i will explain to u in the next following lines hehe. Peter, Jane and myself are good frens for almost a year, actually i know Peter for 2 years. I was the one that introduce Jane to Peter (Jane transferred to the same "company" as Peter) , asking Peter to take care of this "newbie" muahhaha , gosh he really take good care of her. so then Peter and Jane got hit off really well , becoming good frens , doing tings together like eating lunch , go shopping la, and knock off and go home together. Their fellow employees were like speculating about them but Jane explained to them that she only treat him as a good fren and furthermore she was with Jack at that point in time. Peter was a really nice guy even to me but ONLY occasionally lol, he practically help Jane with her every work and stuffs. so what happens after that was stated above.
Jane was like very worried that ppl might think of her as a flirt, but i beg to differ. Basically Jack and Jane will continue to have problems if Jack is not going to change his character. Furthermore, Peter didn't came between them intentionally, he didnt even pop the question to her, they juz got together naturally. This is what i called fate~
To Jane: what happens in the past, juz let it go. Sometimes in order to forget about the sad old relationship, is to get into another new relationship. But of cause, don't treat Peter as Jack's shadow, it will be horrible and unfair to Peter. Lastly, i wish u all the best and happiness alrite!
Personal: sometimes i feel it is very weird. Everytime i decided to talk to someone whom i haven't been contacting for long, end up that she broke up with her bf. i tink i am quite a jinz lol. But i could learnt alot from other ppl experiences perhaps i should become a love counsellor hmmmm....
So last week ;p , i decided to msn this good fren of mine, lets name her Jane [ not her real name], to ask how was she doing so and so. The conversation started off pretty well , but gradually i notice her "tone" in msn was quite dull. so i decided to ask her was she alrite.
She replied that she wasn't feeling good and the first thought came into my mind is oh oh the woman's thingy >< . But apparently it wasn't , so my next thought that its more of heart matters. So using my "counselling" experience lol , i asked her whether what was the problem that she is facing. [Yeah , i know she refers me as KPO, ;p ]
Gradually , she slowly reveal to me that she broke up with her bf of 3 years [ name him as Jack then lol ] . i can sense the pause/slowness of her reply, perhaps she is crying on the other side. Apparently , they have major communication problems like for instance Jack not telling Jane how he actually feels and this really disappoints Jane alot. Jane hopes his bf could treat her as someone he can talk to and by keeping mum about stuffs doesn't really help their relationship. Hence, the day came when Jane couldnt take it any longer and decided to break up with Jack.
In my opinion, if a couple cant even communicate, then i see no point in holding on. Simply because are u going to marry someone that doesnt tell u how she/he feels??? how is that going to be a blissful marriage. Unfortunately, for Jane, i know about her dreams of having a blissful family with Jack , but guess its not going work out that way and it really shatter her badly. Furthermore, i felt that its really weird that Jack didnt make effort to hold on to Jane when she pop the question.
so juz an hour ago, i was talking to Jane again , hoping that she is feeling better now. But woah , her nick was like she was so happy with a guy. One first thought was that she got back together with Jack, however she reply a clear "NO" to me lol. and so i got into my "interview" skills again lol, and ask her whether did she got a new bf?? obviously , she didnt reply me until much longer. and yet again , i manage to ask even further and guess the correct person as her bf.
Bingo , Peter [not real name too ] was her new bf. Now, perhaps u whom were reading got really confused , but i will explain to u in the next following lines hehe. Peter, Jane and myself are good frens for almost a year, actually i know Peter for 2 years. I was the one that introduce Jane to Peter (Jane transferred to the same "company" as Peter) , asking Peter to take care of this "newbie" muahhaha , gosh he really take good care of her. so then Peter and Jane got hit off really well , becoming good frens , doing tings together like eating lunch , go shopping la, and knock off and go home together. Their fellow employees were like speculating about them but Jane explained to them that she only treat him as a good fren and furthermore she was with Jack at that point in time. Peter was a really nice guy even to me but ONLY occasionally lol, he practically help Jane with her every work and stuffs. so what happens after that was stated above.
Jane was like very worried that ppl might think of her as a flirt, but i beg to differ. Basically Jack and Jane will continue to have problems if Jack is not going to change his character. Furthermore, Peter didn't came between them intentionally, he didnt even pop the question to her, they juz got together naturally. This is what i called fate~
To Jane: what happens in the past, juz let it go. Sometimes in order to forget about the sad old relationship, is to get into another new relationship. But of cause, don't treat Peter as Jack's shadow, it will be horrible and unfair to Peter. Lastly, i wish u all the best and happiness alrite!
Personal: sometimes i feel it is very weird. Everytime i decided to talk to someone whom i haven't been contacting for long, end up that she broke up with her bf. i tink i am quite a jinz lol. But i could learnt alot from other ppl experiences perhaps i should become a love counsellor hmmmm....
